. I've thought about writing this article for awhile now because, as a romance author, people today are often asking me why I write them. I usually turn the tables and ask, “Well, why do you read them?” Over the years I've gotten a mixture of responses to this and I'll share some with you here. Most readers of romance and erotic romance say they read these novels mainly because they are lonely, not satisfied in their existing sex lives, or simply enjoy getting swept away by the stories and hot sex. Who wouldn't swoon over these strong in thoughts, physique, and spirit men? Let's face it, the characters in these novels are buffed, constructed, curvy and courageous. They have lives we could only dream about and sex lives that go beyond our fantasies. It's a guilty pleasure. A titillating past time.
Can romance novels warp our way of viewing genuine relationships and real sex lives though? This is dependent upon several factors. Most people, like myself, read them for nothing more than entertainment. And, considering the fact that I create them also, I like maintaining abreast of what is around. Some females create and inform me that it helps to acquire them in the mood for sex with their companion. Kind of like foreplay. Guys are usually quicker than girls!
But you'll find men and women who assume that their companion ought to be like the heroes in these books. They should really operate at a high-paying high-profile job, romance them until they're within a puddle at his feet, then bring them to an earth-shattering orgasm each evening in the week. They really should also dress as if they stepped off the cover of GQ magazine and possess a six-pack-on his stomach, not in his hand. Yes, there are actually females who truly feel this way.
Like any decadent treat, romance novels ought to be enjoyed and savored, but shouldn't take the spot of a real and healthier relationship.
Receiving back for the topic title, is there some thing we are able to learn from romance novels? Certain! The characters constantly appear to develop as people and so must we. Never stay stuck in your previous, do not set dreams aside, be independent, be confident, care for yourself, initiate sex a lot more often, and be honest together with your feelings-with your companion and yourself.
Life might not be a romance novel, but it is often even better considering the fact that your life as well as your companion are true.
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A lover of romance and strong characterization, Kelly believes that any story worth reading need to possess a hero/heroine that the reader can fall in adore with. She is at the moment living her dream, writing sizzling tales of suspense with paranormal elements, too as modern and humorous romance. All of her books contain hugely sensual like scenes and sexual tension that can make your heart race!